info.ishqdiary@gmail.comForeword
This book is not about objectifying or materializing women. Our true intention is to guide men toward becoming genuine gentlemen — individuals who continuously strive to improve themselves by understanding the emotions, perspectives, and inner worlds of women. Through empathy, respect, and emotional maturity, we believe a man can build not only healthier relationships, but also a more fulfilled, balanced, and meaningful life.
Let us be clear: this book does not promote the mindset of a womanizer. Instead, it is built on the foundation of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect.
Co-written by Ajay , this guide is the result of over 5 years of studying the core principles of human connection and more than 6 years of real-life interaction and experimentation with women from all walks of life. The journey is ongoing — and so is this book. We’ll continue refining and updating its content to keep it relevant, practical, and grounded in reality.
In this book, women are explored through broad segments based on age groups, each featuring relatable archetypes — from The Hopeless Romantic teen to The Comeback Queen in her 40s. Additionally, we dive into sub-segments based on how you know her: whether she’s someone you met through a friend, at the gym, online, or even someone from your past.
Think of this book as a reference guide, not a rulebook. Human connection is nuanced, emotional, and often indescribable — some things are meant to be felt rather than fully explained. Our hope is that this guide helps you not “figure out women,” but rather discover how to show up better — for yourself, and for the relationships you create.