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women aged 20–24, are often navigating the formative years of adulthood and self-identity, many women at this age begin to fully embrace adulthood—emotionally, mentally, and socially. Most guys find she is confusing, but its just that many women feel pulled between Childhood conditioning (people-pleasing, fear of disappointing others) and Adult independence and self-authored life decisions which usually  cause confusion or inconsistency  behavior, and emotional overwhelm. It’s not about being indecisive—it’s about reconciling two worlds.she is not moody or confused, rather evolving into a true women. This period is marked by self-discovery, ambition, exploration, and the desire to form meaningful relationships, even if that journey involves multiple connections with men along the way. This is a phase where she wants to feel protected and wants someone to care for her, don’t get confused with caring And controlling. She will hate it if you try to control her or try to create boundaries, just keep in mind to make her feel safe while still respecting her independence. when she feels respected, she naturally becomes more open and connected with you.. Furthermore, as discusses, on deeper level, she is drawn to emotionally stable men who won’t judge her for how she feels or how she thinks.  with that being said, you should always understand that her body is not owed to you, even when youre in a relationship. Respect her consent. Im not telling you to ask her before you try to touch her or try to kiss her, it doesnt  has to be verbal, usually in such situation, she will give you nonverbal consent, try to observe and respect that if  its no. you want to know more about these nonverbal consents click here. This will increase respect for you, To these women, your originality matters the most; however they are not as good as women 25+ but they can feel if its fake personas and also find out if a man is genuinely interested in her . She also expects you to accept her thoughts the way they are. And  if you’re honest with her and gain her trust, she may gradually change herself. most women at this age will quickly move on from relationships that no longer feel right, So guys, don’t stress if she’s got a boyfriend. if she’s not finding what she’s looking for, she won’t stay in a relationship for long.But, if you earn her respect, she will forgive you multiple times but once she feels its done, its very difficult to get another chance:  And please don’t judge her for this behaviour as it’s normal at this age.

In their early twenties, women are still figuring out who they are and becoming more independent. Just as with men, they have high expectations with their career too,  Relationships that try to “settle them down” too soon can feel like traps these behaviors can make it harder to build a strong connection, especially if you want to be her soulmate. You  should take care of these things. Women don’t like being judged for their appearance or life choices; it makes them feel insecure. Us giving space and freedom to pursue her own life choices is not abandonment but, respect. When their efforts in a relationship go unnoticed, they can feel unappreciated, which may push them away. Interrupting them while they are sharing something can make them feel invisible and disrespected, making it harder for them to express themselves. When she shares something with you, she’s often looking for support, not solutions, so listen and be there for her instead of trying to explain to her how to fix things. Ghosting or inconsistent communication also causes confusion and feelings of rejection.Finally, be clear about your intentions—if you like her, let her know; if not, move on to another girl. Understanding these behaviors can help build a healthy relationship based on respect and support, helping both of you grow closer.
As you slowly start gaining her trust, she will start showing you A lot of things hidden aspects of her such as her battle with anxiety, imposter syndrome, depression, or unresolved trauma from adolescence. As guy we should rather than judging and making her feel ashamed, should support her and help her come out of this. And believe me guys, if you can win a trust of a women in this age group, you will have a really great partner for the rest of your  life.
There are few  girls who wants toxic men, and when you find such girls, just ignore them and moveon, as majority of women dont like these, and neither any of us want to be toxic. Deep down we all seek a happy relationship without any drama and trust issues so that together we can focus on respective careers. 

Always remember, honesty, genuineness, trust, and care are all she truly wants from you. Understanding these key points can solve 80% of your problems. For more detailed dos and don’ts

Keypoints:
Women at this age are exploring and may get into frequent temporary relationship in the process. so dont worry if she has a boyfriend. she may breakup soon.
They have very high expectations which will gradually decrease.
Know the difference between caring and controlling.
They are less likely to cheat as compared to older women and more likley to ditch you and find someone else if you dont meet her criterion.